I’m concerned for my little brother. He is 16 years old, weighs 237 lbs, 5 foot 10, and is a lazy person who doesn’t try in work and education. I want to find a way to help motivate him to be a better person. He is also very selfish, arrogant, and rude, even to our parents (and yes theyre asian). If there is any advice you can give me to help this lazy fat piece of work straighten out, please let me know.